Dating an immature man can be frustrating and plenty annoying. There is nothing worse than spending your time and energy on someone who doesn’t seem to be on the same maturity level as you. If your guy just isn’t up to par, he may be emotionally and mentally immature. Here are 14 signs that your guy is merely a grown-up boy instead of a mature man. He doesn’t like to commit
The man you’re dating just doesn’t want to commit to anything. He doesn’t want to dedicate all of his time to something when he prefers to do something else. Getting him to spend quality time with you is like pulling teeth. Having him say yes or no to something is all but impossible but the word maybe is one of the most used words in his vocabulary.
He always points the finger
When something goes wrong, it is never his fault. Instead, he resorts to pointing the finger at everyone else. He is not one to readily take or accept blame. And when he is obviously in the wrong, he still finds ways to brush some of the blame off on you or someone else. The finger is never ever pointed at him.
There’s no depth to him
When a man has matured, he has some depth to him. He has inner secrets, stories, and true emotions. However, an immature guy has a surface and nothing more. He has nothing exciting to share about his life and he goes along with what everyone else thinks and says. He’s about as shallow as a kiddie pool. His lack of depth is bound to make any woman bored.
He doesn’t have a steady job
This man never has a steady or stable job. Instead he works at the mall for two weeks, then goes to the grocery store, then works part time at Home Depot. Since he lacks a steady job, he rarely has a consistent flow of money coming into his pockets. At the same time, this guy has no desire to find a steady job either.
He’s never had a meaningful relationship
When he talks about his past dating experiences, he’s never mentioned a long-term relationship. Instead he talks about one night stands and girlfriends that lasted all of two weeks. Men who are immature are typically unable to hold a steady and stable relationship. This is a huge red flag as your relationship with him won’t likely last either.
I love you is out of the question
This guy rarely talks about his emotions and feelings for you. While he’ll admit to loving his car, his expensive shoes, and the newest XBox game that he purchased, he will never say that he loves you. This means that you’re setting yourself up with having to to deal with an emotionally immature man who will never express himself. When something has gone wrong or you need his help, you can’t rely on him to come to your rescue. If you need someone to watch your dog for a few hours or if your car needs a hot shot, he isn’t on your “to call” list. He prefers to focus on himself and nothing but. In events that you’d expect him to step up, he never does.
He has absolutely no worries
Your guy lives a carefree life and lives day-to-day. As long as his video games are working and his car is running just fine, life is peachy keen to him. He doesn’t worry about money, living a fulfilling life, or working on ways to better impress you. He prefers to be care and worry free.
Everything is in your court
Even if his life depended on it, you know that this guy could not make a decision. Instead, he always throws the ball back into your court. No matter if it’s something simple such as deciding what to have for dinner, you can never expect him to provide you with a solid answer or plan of action. Instead he avoids having to make decisions.
He never makes plans
So you want to go out to dinner? Go see a movie you’re interest in? Go on a weekend vacation? Well too bad. When it comes to making plans and sticking to them, you know that’s simply too much for your guy. He won’t make plans more than a day in advance and when he does, he often cancels them because something else comes up.
He’s materialistic
He’s still stuck in the world of a young boy. He loves anything and everything that is flashy, shiny, and expensive. He buys new rims for his car every other month. He upgrades his flat screen if his friend buys a bigger and better one. The material things in life are one of the top priorities to him.
He’s inconsiderate
He’s extremely selfish when it comes to all meanings of the word. His priorities are always more important than yours. He can’t be bothered with caring about anyone but himself. He sucks at tipping and is rude to a lot of people.
He’s a moocher
Though he has some money of his own, this guy prefers to be a mooch. While he has the money to buy new video games every week, he doesn’t have the money to pay his cell phone bill. He has no shame in asking you, his parents, or his boys for money. He prefers to mooch off of everyone instead of doing things for himself.
He has no real life plans
He has no idea what he wants to do for a living. He has no interest in earning any type of degree. He’s clueless as to what direction he wants to steer his life in. He prefers to live day-to-day and take thing as they come to him. This guy isn’t worried about his future and could care less about where he goes in life.
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